Two years ago my roommate was diagnosed with a chronic illness. She quit work and I covered her rent for six months, dropped her off at the clinic, managed her fundraisers, did her laundry and kept up with the cleaning even after she went back to work. After a year she got better! It was a huge surprise and relief to see her well again.

Then in March she was diagnosed with a different chronic illness and now she's talking about quitting her job again. Am I a bad person if I decide to move out?