So you just found out you've been played, it's alright we've all been there.

You may ask yourself, "Well... how did I get here?"

Well... Since you are asking where you went wrong was thinking you could outsmart us.

You see some of us have a different kind of smarts, and while you are a fabulous communicator, pobody's nerfect.

We are the listeners.

Yes, you are in a bit of trouble, but you'll find a way out. None of them are particularly easy, but none of them are really that hard either.

As cliche as it is, the first step is admitting you have a problem, and hey you are already there, so good job.

Waking up is hard to do and you've done that.

Mazel tov!

The next steps are up to you, we trust you to figure it out, but its going to be hard, so here are some tips.

The same people who got you into this mess, are unlikely to help you get out. Invest yourself in change.

You are allowed to ask for help. And the funny thing about this whole process is the people you tend to have treated the worse are the ones who can help you the most right now.

You are not alone. You are going to think you are insane for making decisions that, while healthy for yourself and others, are new, challenging, isolating and different from anything you've done or believed in before. That's okay. IT DOES GET BETTER.

You are going to be just fine.

Don't believe me? okay, maybe go back and read what you wrote down for starters... Who made you say those things?

P.S. No one touched anything in the garden, you crazy old fool 😜