I fully understand you and your friends' inability to understand the consequences of your decision making. With your parents always there to fall back on for money and direction, you've never really had the opportunity to become familiar with the choices that define who a person is. I'm happy I was able to help with that, at least a little bit.

You were given so many opportunities. So many errors were forgiven, so many dishonest moments looked past. You had every chance to be honest about what it is you did and with who.You had every chance to behave with class and civility. You were even given the opportunity to maintain the "let's be still friends" facade.

Maybe you got bad advice from your mother. Maybe you were pressured into things by your "friends." Maybe you were intimidated by something else. Maybe you were scared of the responsibilities. If you want, you can find someone to talk to and unpack all the reasons, excuses, and factors into why you did what you did and how you continue forward, but that's not my job or responsibility in any way, shape, or form.

We made a simple agreement with simple vows. You tried to leave months in. Almost as soon as we got married you threatened divorce as a weapon of control. You broke your word on multiple occasions. No one is perfect, but you didn't even try to respect our relationship. You betrayed me.

I was a damn fine wife from day 1, and I deserve a partner who can recognizes.

No one can make you happy if you don't want to be happy.

I'm not say we didn't have good times I'll remember here and there, I'm saying I'm not the one to turn to for favors anymore.