Jeez I am tired of being single. Men of Portland: Could one of you please find me? I clearly have not been successful at finding you. How do you meet ladies? Ladies you like and are interested in dating? Probably it would help if I got out of the house more often. But where? I've tried volunteering, art stuff, coffee shops, chatting up random people in a variety of environments, yet nothing. My friends suggest on-line dating; I can't get excited about on-line dating. I am tired of waiting for a random event. Help me out here folks-where do single grown up guys with career jobs and reasonably well developed arm muscles hang out?