Here's the deal, ladies. If I ask you for your number and you give it to me, then great! I promise to call or text and meet up. If you say "no" or "I can't " or "get lost" then that's ok too. Believe me, I've been turned down lots of times and expect to be turned down in the future. I can handle it.. But for Christ sake don't give me your number and then never respond. Don't ignore my attempts to contact you. Then I feel silly and stalker-creepy, which I am not meaning to. So Brenda, and Aja and Macy and Robin, If you're not interested then say so up front and save everyone the drama.