Please educate yourself on the correct way on applying this action of psychological abuse. Just because someone says something you don’t like in an argument, or you don’t like what you’re being told means you’re being gaslit. Are you questioning your sanity? Are the gaslights really being dimmed and when questioning it, are you being told you’re crazy? Just because you get butthurt in an argument, doesn’t mean you’re being gaslit. You do an extreme disservice to those in truly abusive relationships where gaslighting actually happens when you toss the word out because you can’t function in a discussion. Knock it off. I suggest you see the film or read the script for the play Gaslight to see where it actually is occurring before you clutch your pearls.