If you people would simmer down, relax for a sec, and engage in real human conversation; we could show y'all some pretty cool stuff and teach ya a few things. But y'all have to chill, stop freaking out, take some steps to repair things, and at least try to reach out to people and engage them on a human level. You've successfully done this with other people before, if you are nervous or feel stuck try starting a conversation with a phonecall,email,text or the like. "How are you" usually works pretty well. "What's that like" is a good addition to help continue a conversation. "What do you think" often has revealing benefits to all. But seriously people, drop a voicemail or something. This is all beyond silly and ridiculous. Take two and call me in the morning.