Let's face it, you're position is eroding from underneath you. Endless gaslighting and deception is not sustainable, for a lot of reasons and while we may have some among our own generation left to turn, we all know where the bulk of the issues lie. So here's the thing, you're getting older, you're getting more vulnerable, you're going to need our help either way. And the thing with advancing years, is that lying, emotional outbursts, and gaslighting etc are no longer a narcissistic power plays, they may be qualified as symptoms of health serious health concerns. But there is hope, I noted a recent study where narcissists can be compelled to act ethically when they see it aligns with their own interest. So let's consider that alignment present from multiple directions, both because its the right thing to do, its the right thing to be seen doing, and because we have tools and levers available to us should unhealthy behavior continue. As far as those of our own generation who knowlingly or unknowingly or reactively participated in horrific events when hackles were raised. I don't always get what I want, but most people who have the courage to correct their errors, participate in restorative justice, can be seen as heroes to many. So let's all step forward and be honest and polite with each other. We'd all like to move forward quickly. Nobody wants to see others go to jail. But keep in mind, we don't always get what we want.