Letâs say youâre a younger gay guy whoâs been doing ethical FinDom (financial domination) for a few years and youâre good at it and you feel good about doing it because you take reasonable amounts of money, aka âtribute,â from your finsubs and you give value in return. In my case, I share sexy text messages, pics, and do meet ups with subs whoâve earned my trust. And letâs say one of your trusted subs â someone youâve been draining in your own ethical way for a few years â offers to sign everything he has over to you. House, condo, vacation home, savings, stocks. Everything. This person says itâs their ultimate fantasy and they ask again and again. Do you have to say no? At what point can you ethically say yes? Letâs say this particular sub has no kids, no spouse, and his nearest relatives are Trump supporters and homophobes who were awful to him when he came out. He doesnât want them to get anything. He says if I donât take it all, heâs going to give it all to charity. Iâm 32 (not that young, I guess) and heâs 72 and heâs not in great health. This would set me up for life and I would be able to help my parents out. Thoughts? What if I had to marry him to make it possible for tax reasons? Should I marry him? No one in their right mind would make an offer like this, right? I half expect him to come to his senses and think Iâm a monster if I say yes. Can I do this and still think of myself as an ethical FinDom?
Seriously Entertaining This Unbelievable Possibility
P.S. I told him he could leave me whatever he wants in his will, but he says he wants to have the experience of giving it all to me while heâs still alive to enjoy it.
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