I was seeing this guy for about four months. We were pretty much dating, doing all of the normal boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Everything was going great up until last night when he told me he feels all of these feelings for me, but they don't mean anything because he's felt this same way about others, but nothing has ever worked out. He told me that whatever we have “isn't enough.” I'm not sure what that even means. But last night he also told me that he loves me and yet he still left. I'm so confused. Do you have any insight?

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