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HELLO, ask bisexual girls too! They do both things, and I don't think being a lady-type affects the discomfort involved in either activity.
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Vast majority of girls I've eaten take more than 10 minutes to get off (And why rush?). Guys? yeah, 10 minutes is the upper outlier.
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Ya know, I almost want to suck a dick now just for comparison. To my way of thinking, the dick does half of the work for you by sticking out. But there's no gagging hazard involved with pussy-eating. Hmm, food for thought.
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"there's no gagging hazard involved with pussy-eating"

I imagine your technique leaves much to be desired.

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I'm not sure if this is the most appropriate (or on-topic) comment to make in this thread, but I wish that, in general, some women would take more time and effort to learn how to give good blowjobs. I've been lucky enough to be with a handful of women over the years who were not only enthusiastic about fellatio, but also amazingly adept at it.

Then again, I've also been with many more who were either mediocre or terrible at it, and some of them showed no inclination or desire to get better, let alone any real interest in giving pleasure.

This is not to say that men, in general, are any better than women at oral sex. I've never had sex with a man, and I'm not sure that there's really a definitive way to know. What I DO know, however, is that sexual performance is a very important aspect of (hetero) male sexual identity, and for many of us, that means that we try our best to good, if not exceptional lovers (although there are plenty of exceptions to this rule, I'm sure - selfishness isn't limited to one gender or another).

I realize that these are just generalities based on my own personal experience. That's why I have to wonder - is my experience unique? Has anyone else had the experience of one gender typically being better at a given sexual act than another? Is one gender typically more "GGG", as Dan Savage would say? Does one gender typically expend more effort in pleasing the other, or in trying to get better at sex?

What do you think?

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@ Snagglepuss: I don't think your experience is unique to you, or to your gender. I felt all of those things (prior to marrying my sexual husband, of course) and then some.

I'd go so far as to argue that women are expected to be much more adept at sexy things than men. Society is much more demanding, and judgmental, of women's sexual identities. We're conditioned from birth to please others and the bedroom is no exception.

If you got some inadequate blowjobs, I doubt it was because the girl wasn't trying hard enough.
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BTW Joneser: Dan *did* ask bisexual girls to weigh in. (And I agree—though I have something different for bisexual girls to weigh in on. EWWWW!!!)
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"I imagine your technique leaves much to be desired."

I imagine you have a clit like a big toe.
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We haven't had a blogtown meetup in a while....
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@CC: this is about pussy and dick - leave the assholes out of it.

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