Now that recreational weed is on its way, I’ve heard a common concern: People are excited about it, but how can they tell their family and friends about their appreciation for the (soon-to-be completely legal) green stuff? This is a valid question, although it’s not going to be anywhere near as difficult and divisive as other “coming out of the closet” conversations.
With all respect where it’s due, perhaps those who enjoy weed can take inspiration from the many brave men and women who have willingly outed themselves as LGBTQ. There are some similarities: Over the years, both camps have suffered media- and culture-driven stereotypes, religious judgment, harassment from law enforcement, and even jail time. Both have been told they are unfit parents and been threatened with having their children taken away; both have been discriminated against in matters of employment and housing.
But this is a real reach. Cannabis users haven’t suffered a Stonewall-type incident, endured brutal street assaults, or been murdered by bigots. (Although overzealous cops shot and killed unarmed growers during Drug War raids.) And—big difference—no one can really say that cannabis use is anything but a choice; by making any actual comparative claims of hardship, you deserve nothing more sympathetic than a slap to the dome.
So just remember you don’t have it so bad. And if and when you decide to tell everyone about your love affair with weed, consider these tips…
