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SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your Savage hot takes to your most pressing quick questions here! And don't miss this week's SAVAGE LOVECAST with guest Caleb Hearon!
SAVAGE LOVE: Vice Grips
Can you "fuck the Republican" out of someone? Dan—and a former sworn enemy—issue a ruling.
SAVAGE LOVE: Role Perversal
A longtime couple finally admit their sexy fantasies... but can't carry them out! WHAT CAN BE DONE?
SAVAGE LOVE: Lies That Bind
He repeatedly cheats, she told his family and friends. Are they both in the wrong?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
The "daddy/babygirl" dynamic, asexual curious, holding in your orgasm, swallowing curved appendages, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Top Five
Dan picks five letters from his mailbag at random... and they are doozies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Game On
His attempts at spontaneous sex are ANNOYING. Why is he doing it, and how can she get him to STOP?
SAVAGE LOVE: What Eats You
She's queer and doesn't like to be licked. Why can't people get that through their heads?
SAVAGE LOVE: Big Ask
A question that might not be for Dan, and another that DEFINITELY is.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Got sex problems? Get 'em answered quick with this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: Same Page
He doesn't want to have sex anymore. Can this relationship be saved... and if so, how?
SAVAGE LOVE: Solo Survivor
"After time apart (and having sex with others), should we introduce new people into our relationship?"
SAVAGE LOVE: The Outsiders
A married man in an open relationship needs advice about how to ask for what (and who) he wants on dating apps.
SAVAGE LOVE: Allowances
She refuses to indulge in his feeder/gainer kink—can he just turn his feelings off?
SAVAGE LOVE: Wants v. Gots
She's got an international part-time lover... but wants more. Should she ask for it?
SAVAGE LOVE: Bruise Control
A reader who hurts himself feels like he's being judged while people into BDSM get celebrated. What's the difference?
Savage Love: Feathered Friends (With Benefits)
Grandma has a very... unusual... relationship with her pet parakeet. (Gulp.)
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Pegging purists, jilted unicorns, cheating BFs, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Slick Moves
"My sex pal won't stop mishandling our lube." Can Dan help this person navigate their slippery situation?
SAVAGE LOVE: Mommy Issues
"My 13-year-old son is involved in an online Dom/sub relationship. Ummmm... HELP!!"
SAVAGE LOVE: Frozen
"I've never been able to orgasm, and my current sexual relationship stinks. So why should I continue trying?"
Savage Love: Messed Up
"My boyfriend is secretly asking for 'punitive' acts from strangers. That's cheating... right?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Online lust, stinky butts, and falling in love with one's sex worker—all these and more in this edition of Savage Love "quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: Mask 4 Mask
"I post fetish content on the internet. How worried should I be that someone, like a future boss, might find out?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Priced Out
Her boyfriend wants permission to hire sex workers. Is this a case of irreconcilable differences?
SAVAGE LOVE: Best Interests
Will his new polyamorous lifestyle endanger his current child custody agreement? Depends on where he lives!
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
How to make a "throuple," defining undefinable relationships, tempting your workaholic lover, and much more in this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: What Counts
Is a woman having an emotional affair with a married man "micro-cheating"? And is the concept of "micro-cheating" bullshit? LET'S FIND OUT.
SAVAGE LOVE: Dom and Dommer
She's been dominating him and he seems to love it... is this a problem or the beginning of a beautiful (and hot) relationship?
SAVAGE LOVE: Power Moves
After a lifetime of one-sided relationships, they finally found someone they're truly attracted to. Cue the freakout!
SAVAGE LOVE: The Long Game
"Should I dump my girlfriend before or after we join a kink/swingers club?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies!
Non-app dating, gay nude resorts, oral sex etiquette, and lots more in this edition of "Quickies"!
Savage Love: Routine Maintenance
Maintenance sex: A necessary (often fun) chore or nonconsensual nonsense? Dan Savage weighs in.
SAVAGE LOVE: Smash Button
She's kinky and poly; he's vanilla and monogamous. Can this relationship be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
Platonic vs. romantic love, the right type of lube, hopping back on the fuck wagon, and more in this episode of Savage Love quickies!
Savage Love: Micro Nots
She's wondering what she did to get dumped... but first? Let's talk about polyamory.
Savage Love: Script Doctor
She's married and has a "hall pass"—but how can she find out if her workplace crush also has a "hall pass"?
Savage Love: Loading Zone
This week, Savage tackles the eternal question: "Why are some people addicted to orgies?"
Savage Love: Sexless Wonders
Can a relationship be successful even if the sex is terrible from the start?
Savage Love: Christmas Break
A cuckold falls in love (and has "amazing sex") with his mother-in-law... or did he?
Savage Love: Quickies
Let's end the year with a hot load of quickie sex questions (and answers)!
Savage Love: Departures
He's been a bottom long enough, but hubby isn't having it. Now that he's found someone new, should he try to make his marriage work?
SAVAGE LOVE: Maintenance Haze
He ruined his relationship by chasing after the unattainable sexy neighbor. Now what should he do?
Savage Love: What Was Lost
She can't get over losing her ex—what's an out-and-proud goddess to do?
Savage Love: Thanks Again
His hubby did something BAD to the Thanksgiving family casserole... can this marriage be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
Strap in and strap on—it's time for more of your quickie sex questions answered lickety-split!
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Savage Love: Him City
He's gay, but lives in Salt Lake City. In order to find a lasting relationship, should he move?
Savage Love: Not Glue
She's accused of something her partner had been doing to her for years, but still... should she feel bad?
Savage Love: A New Dom
He has dreams of being a Dom, but there are... complications. What can he do to prepare?
Savage Love: Animal Urges
A victim of childhood abuse is overwhelmed by guilt and shame. Will healing ever be an option?
Savage Love: Quickies
Masturbation tricks, lube recommendations, and lots more quickie (and sexy) Q & As!
Savage Love: The Finish Delegation
This guy thinks his controlled premature ejaculations are HOT—but does he need to let his partners know?
SAVAGE LOVE: Popping Off
Should one warn their sex partner before doing poppers? Dan Savage sniffs out the truth.
Savage Love: Didn't Happen
A reader's wife might be cucking him... but not the way he claims.
SAVAGE LOVE: The Italian Job
Not all Italian relationships are hot—in fact, this one is withering on the vine.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your down 'n' dirty answers fast in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Savage Love: Blow Over
A fellatio-deprived hubby wants more than he's getting. But how much should he expect?
Savage Love: She Will Not Be Ignored
Two marriages in, and she still can't let go of the idea of a forever relationship with her "first love." Is she gonna drop it or what?
Savage Love: Millstones
His partner is demanding “relationship milestones”—but is that too heavy of a lift?
Savage Love: Age Played
A dude in his 40s slept with someone who he thought was 21—but was actually much younger. How shitty should he feel?
Savage Love: Family Ties
A single nightmare dad joke ruined bondage for me. Do I need therapy now?
Savage Love: Take Care
In this week's column: "After two sexless decades, how can I let my partner know my needs aren't being met?"
Savage Love: Quickies
Pineapple-flavored cum, health concerns over licking armpits, and lots more quickie, sexy Qs!
Savage Love: First Trap
She's never been kissed... or had sex. Forget about getting her groove back, how's she gonna get it in the first place?
Savage Love: TEARS Factor
She's the "other woman," but wait... it's more complicated than that.
Savage Love: Topside
He wants her to be his Dom Goddess, and she's like, "what?"... but turned on. So where does she start?
Savage Love: What To Expect
Lack of sex leads to a slow motion matrimonial train wreck.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your sexual problems solved lickety-split with this quick 'n' dirty edition of Savage Love!
Savage Love: Out With It
Happy Pride! Here is the most LGBTQ shit Dan has ever read.
Savage Love: Appetite For Destruction
An apparently "famous" artist doesn't want the world to know he's bisexual—and apparently doesn't realize that no one gives a shit.
Savage Love: How's That?!
"I like to pee on myself. Got a problem with that?"
Savage Love: Wash It Away
Is it possible to "un-sleep" with someone, and like Cher, "turn back time"?
Savage Love: Chick Lit
She's got erotic literature on the brain. And that's good... right? Or is it?
Savage Love: Fake and Faker
He agreed to be a financial slave to his supposedly domineering wife... but Savage smells a RAT.
Savage Love: Questions
She complains about his BO following sex—but is there something else going on besides a sensitive snoot?
Savage Love: Shameful
Hubby's into diaper play; wifey is losing her shit. Can this mind be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
"Ruined" orgasms, lack of fuckability concerns, and lots more quicky sex queries!
Savage Love: Sister, Wife
"My wife's sister texted to say she has my wife's permission to sleep with me. Ummmm... WHAT."
Savage Love: Asked and Answered
A lesbian in a 10-year sexless marriage wants to re-spark the connection... but is this a "too little, too late" situation?
Savage Love: Size Peace
She's ashamed of the way her body looks... is there any way to feel sexy again?
Coming Around
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: She was never able to have vaginal penetration orgasms before... but now? BLAMMO! What's up with that?
Quickies
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Abortion pills, escorts, and how to get laid at the gym!
Charades
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Hubby keeps sending love letters to his ex, despite wifey telling him to stop. Can this marriage be saved?
Pegged As Bi
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: She's okay with pegging his butt... but pegging his face, too?
Kant Say No
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: A sugar daddy wants to give him his entire fortune. Should he take it?
Dom Vibes
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: She's into BDSM, hubby is definitely not. Can this relationship be saved?
Quickies!
Need your sex life fixed in a hurry? This edition of SAVAGE LOVE "Quickies" can help!
Case Disclosed
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: "My BF has undetectable HIV. How much should we disclose to future play partners?"
Manners
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: "Am I being used as a pawn in my lover's sex games with his primary partner?"
The Uncanny Valley
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Can you guess which advice is Dan's, and which was written by a horny robot? 🤖 🍆
Runners
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: If you tell the new person you're about to fuck the truth and that person runs... that's bad, right?
Quickies
Need answers to your sexual problems quick? Then don't miss another "quickies" edition of SAVAGE LOVE!
Getting It
This week in Savage Love: "Cuckolding. I want it, I need it, how do I get it??"
The Birthday Boy
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: A son wants mom to go halfsies on a session with sex worker. She's a "cool mom," but... C'MON!
Unlocked
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Slutting advice for the returning slut.
Quickies
It's another slam-bang edition of SAVAGE LOVE "quickies"! You have the quick, sexy questions, Dan has the quick, sexy solutions!
The Watcher
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: His playmate likes to watch him play with others. But the look on his face is... umm... creepy?
Ace Case
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: He can't help it... he gets hot for shaved armpits. Does this make him anti-feminist?
Loaded Questions
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Straight guy feels guilty about earth-shattering BJs he receives from gay pal. Sooo... should he?
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