Savage Love
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SAVAGE LOVE: Privacy Settings
"I’m worried I’m going to run into my dad in a kink space."
"I’m worried I’m going to run into my dad in a kink space."
SAVAGE LOVE: Fear of Fairing
Is monogamy is ethically wrong if one partner wants something else?
Is monogamy is ethically wrong if one partner wants something else?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies!
Tighty-whiteys, late-blooming bisexuals, dick disposal, and more!
Tighty-whiteys, late-blooming bisexuals, dick disposal, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Situation Critical
She constantly compared him to her past lovers—was he wrong to split?
She constantly compared him to her past lovers—was he wrong to split?
SAVAGE LOVE: Had To Getaway
Random vacation sex leads to fun... then anger... then shame. What did she do wrong?
Random vacation sex leads to fun... then anger... then shame. What did she do wrong?
SAVAGE LOVE: The Boyfriend Experience
Her boyfriend confessed to making a secret Bumble account. Should she listen to the TikTok mob and dump him?
Her boyfriend confessed to making a secret Bumble account. Should she listen to the TikTok mob and dump him?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Stinky hookups, femboy mechanics, and disappointing doms in this edition of "Quickies!"
Stinky hookups, femboy mechanics, and disappointing doms in this edition of "Quickies!"
SAVAGE LOVE: Slut Biome
Is "butt stuff" messing up her gastrointestinal system? (Not a real) Doctor Savage to the rescue!
Is "butt stuff" messing up her gastrointestinal system? (Not a real) Doctor Savage to the rescue!
SAVAGE LOVE: Jerked Around
She does NOT like it when hubby locks himself in the bathroom to masturbate. 👀
She does NOT like it when hubby locks himself in the bathroom to masturbate. 👀
SAVAGE LOVE: Hurt People
His throuple blew up in his face, leaving him heartbroken. But after moving on, guess who comes crawling back?
His throuple blew up in his face, leaving him heartbroken. But after moving on, guess who comes crawling back?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your sexy advice lickety-split in this edition of "Quickies!"
Get your sexy advice lickety-split in this edition of "Quickies!"
SAVAGE LOVE: Code Red
"Gingerism" is a THING. And it's made this red-head's sexual life unnecessarily complicated.
"Gingerism" is a THING. And it's made this red-head's sexual life unnecessarily complicated.
SAVAGE LOVE: Defaulting
A "don't ask, don't tell" relationship gets horny... then thorny.
A "don't ask, don't tell" relationship gets horny... then thorny.
SAVAGE LOVE: Sailed Ships
Her formerly drunk hubby cleaned up his act... or did he?
Her formerly drunk hubby cleaned up his act... or did he?
SAVAGE LOVE: Vibe Shifts
How do you plan a hot, sexy getaway with sexy friends? Or can you?
How do you plan a hot, sexy getaway with sexy friends? Or can you?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your sex advice lickety-split with this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Get your sex advice lickety-split with this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Come and Go
"I had sex in a hot tub once... and it ruined my life."
"I had sex in a hot tub once... and it ruined my life."
SAVAGE LOVE: Off the Table
"She finds sex too painful and no longer wants to have intercourse. But... what about me?"
"She finds sex too painful and no longer wants to have intercourse. But... what about me?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Runaway, Bride!
"I've been married for almost two years, and we still haven’t had sex." WHAT? 👀
"I've been married for almost two years, and we still haven’t had sex." WHAT? 👀
SAVAGE LOVE: HUMP! Quickies
Quick (and dirty) questions from the HUMP! porn festival audience members!
Quick (and dirty) questions from the HUMP! porn festival audience members!
SAVAGE LOVE: Acid Tongued
"My partner was prescribed a boric acid suppository. Will I die if I eat her out?"
"My partner was prescribed a boric acid suppository. Will I die if I eat her out?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Team Fantasize
"Don't tease me with your hot fantasies if you don't actually want to do 'em!"
"Don't tease me with your hot fantasies if you don't actually want to do 'em!"
SAVAGE LOVE: Low and Slow
"How do I stop pushing Daddies away with my neediness?"
"How do I stop pushing Daddies away with my neediness?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Solve your tricky sex problems quick with this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Solve your tricky sex problems quick with this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: The Counterfeit
"I've been faking orgasms... for months. How do I break this cycle?"
"I've been faking orgasms... for months. How do I break this cycle?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Trump and Dump
Her partner's son is a virulent, Trump-loving homophobe. How is she supposed to put up with this?
Her partner's son is a virulent, Trump-loving homophobe. How is she supposed to put up with this?
SAVAGE LOVE: Fear Factors
Her 17-year-old son is hooking up with older men, and she's terrified.
Her 17-year-old son is hooking up with older men, and she's terrified.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your sex advice quick with this edition of Savage Love quickies!
Get your sex advice quick with this edition of Savage Love quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: The Sixties
He enjoys oral over vaginal sex, and she isn't satisfied. What to do?
He enjoys oral over vaginal sex, and she isn't satisfied. What to do?
SAVAGE LOVE: Damaged Goods
A sudden onset of premature ejaculation has her wondering, "Will I ever be able to enjoyably ride my husband again?"
A sudden onset of premature ejaculation has her wondering, "Will I ever be able to enjoyably ride my husband again?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Crop Top
"My boobs won't stop growing, so I'm undergoing top surgery—and my husband is distressed."
"My boobs won't stop growing, so I'm undergoing top surgery—and my husband is distressed."
SAVAGE LOVE: Out and About
At 45, a married woman discovers she's a lesbian—but wants to stay married to her man, AND keep her girlfriend, AND be accepted by her family. Can she have it all?
At 45, a married woman discovers she's a lesbian—but wants to stay married to her man, AND keep her girlfriend, AND be accepted by her family. Can she have it all?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Holiday kinks, sneaky sex, anal etiquette, and more in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Holiday kinks, sneaky sex, anal etiquette, and more in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Turkey Run
When he says "eat me," he means it literally.
When he says "eat me," he means it literally.
SAVAGE LOVE: Twinning
"I might be falling in love with my husband’s identical twin brother." 👯♂️
SAVAGE LOVE: Mourning in America
Advice for those who feel like democracy has abandoned them.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your advice lickety-split with the latest edition of Savage Love quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Cope Don't Seethe
He says he doesn't have sexual fantasies... OR DOES HE?
SAVAGE LOVE: The Rich Are Different
"I am incredibly rich, sexy, and have lots of lovers. Whatever will I do??"
SAVAGE LOVE: Ace Space Case
"As a sex-repulsed asexual gay man, I feel alienated when I enter gay spaces like bars, parties, clubs."
SAVAGE LOVE: Struggle Sessions
It's amateur night at Savage Love, where YOU get to give snappy answers to desperate questions!
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your Savage hot takes to your most pressing quick questions here! And don't miss this week's SAVAGE LOVECAST with guest Caleb Hearon!
SAVAGE LOVE: Vice Grips
Can you "fuck the Republican" out of someone? Dan—and a former sworn enemy—issue a ruling.
SAVAGE LOVE: Role Perversal
A longtime couple finally admit their sexy fantasies... but can't carry them out! WHAT CAN BE DONE?
SAVAGE LOVE: Lies That Bind
He repeatedly cheats, she told his family and friends. Are they both in the wrong?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
The "daddy/babygirl" dynamic, asexual curious, holding in your orgasm, swallowing curved appendages, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Top Five
Dan picks five letters from his mailbag at random... and they are doozies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Game On
His attempts at spontaneous sex are ANNOYING. Why is he doing it, and how can she get him to STOP?
SAVAGE LOVE: What Eats You
She's queer and doesn't like to be licked. Why can't people get that through their heads?
SAVAGE LOVE: Big Ask
A question that might not be for Dan, and another that DEFINITELY is.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Got sex problems? Get 'em answered quick with this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: Same Page
He doesn't want to have sex anymore. Can this relationship be saved... and if so, how?
SAVAGE LOVE: Solo Survivor
"After time apart (and having sex with others), should we introduce new people into our relationship?"
SAVAGE LOVE: The Outsiders
A married man in an open relationship needs advice about how to ask for what (and who) he wants on dating apps.
SAVAGE LOVE: Allowances
She refuses to indulge in his feeder/gainer kink—can he just turn his feelings off?
SAVAGE LOVE: Wants v. Gots
She's got an international part-time lover... but wants more. Should she ask for it?
SAVAGE LOVE: Bruise Control
A reader who hurts himself feels like he's being judged while people into BDSM get celebrated. What's the difference?
Savage Love: Feathered Friends (With Benefits)
Grandma has a very... unusual... relationship with her pet parakeet. (Gulp.)
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Pegging purists, jilted unicorns, cheating BFs, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Slick Moves
"My sex pal won't stop mishandling our lube." Can Dan help this person navigate their slippery situation?
SAVAGE LOVE: Mommy Issues
"My 13-year-old son is involved in an online Dom/sub relationship. Ummmm... HELP!!"
SAVAGE LOVE: Frozen
"I've never been able to orgasm, and my current sexual relationship stinks. So why should I continue trying?"
Savage Love: Messed Up
"My boyfriend is secretly asking for 'punitive' acts from strangers. That's cheating... right?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Online lust, stinky butts, and falling in love with one's sex worker—all these and more in this edition of Savage Love "quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: Mask 4 Mask
"I post fetish content on the internet. How worried should I be that someone, like a future boss, might find out?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Priced Out
Her boyfriend wants permission to hire sex workers. Is this a case of irreconcilable differences?
SAVAGE LOVE: Best Interests
Will his new polyamorous lifestyle endanger his current child custody agreement? Depends on where he lives!
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
How to make a "throuple," defining undefinable relationships, tempting your workaholic lover, and much more in this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: What Counts
Is a woman having an emotional affair with a married man "micro-cheating"? And is the concept of "micro-cheating" bullshit? LET'S FIND OUT.
SAVAGE LOVE: Dom and Dommer
She's been dominating him and he seems to love it... is this a problem or the beginning of a beautiful (and hot) relationship?
SAVAGE LOVE: Power Moves
After a lifetime of one-sided relationships, they finally found someone they're truly attracted to. Cue the freakout!
SAVAGE LOVE: The Long Game
"Should I dump my girlfriend before or after we join a kink/swingers club?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies!
Non-app dating, gay nude resorts, oral sex etiquette, and lots more in this edition of "Quickies"!
Savage Love: Routine Maintenance
Maintenance sex: A necessary (often fun) chore or nonconsensual nonsense? Dan Savage weighs in.
SAVAGE LOVE: Smash Button
She's kinky and poly; he's vanilla and monogamous. Can this relationship be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
Platonic vs. romantic love, the right type of lube, hopping back on the fuck wagon, and more in this episode of Savage Love quickies!
Savage Love: Micro Nots
She's wondering what she did to get dumped... but first? Let's talk about polyamory.
Savage Love: Script Doctor
She's married and has a "hall pass"—but how can she find out if her workplace crush also has a "hall pass"?
Savage Love: Loading Zone
This week, Savage tackles the eternal question: "Why are some people addicted to orgies?"
Savage Love: Sexless Wonders
Can a relationship be successful even if the sex is terrible from the start?
Savage Love: Christmas Break
A cuckold falls in love (and has "amazing sex") with his mother-in-law... or did he?
Savage Love: Quickies
Let's end the year with a hot load of quickie sex questions (and answers)!
Savage Love: Departures
He's been a bottom long enough, but hubby isn't having it. Now that he's found someone new, should he try to make his marriage work?
SAVAGE LOVE: Maintenance Haze
He ruined his relationship by chasing after the unattainable sexy neighbor. Now what should he do?
Savage Love: What Was Lost
She can't get over losing her ex—what's an out-and-proud goddess to do?
Savage Love: Thanks Again
His hubby did something BAD to the Thanksgiving family casserole... can this marriage be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
Strap in and strap on—it's time for more of your quickie sex questions answered lickety-split!
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Savage Love: Him City
He's gay, but lives in Salt Lake City. In order to find a lasting relationship, should he move?
Savage Love: Not Glue
She's accused of something her partner had been doing to her for years, but still... should she feel bad?
Savage Love: A New Dom
He has dreams of being a Dom, but there are... complications. What can he do to prepare?
Savage Love: Animal Urges
A victim of childhood abuse is overwhelmed by guilt and shame. Will healing ever be an option?
Savage Love: Quickies
Masturbation tricks, lube recommendations, and lots more quickie (and sexy) Q & As!
Savage Love: The Finish Delegation
This guy thinks his controlled premature ejaculations are HOT—but does he need to let his partners know?
SAVAGE LOVE: Popping Off
Should one warn their sex partner before doing poppers? Dan Savage sniffs out the truth.
Savage Love: Didn't Happen
A reader's wife might be cucking him... but not the way he claims.
SAVAGE LOVE: The Italian Job
Not all Italian relationships are hot—in fact, this one is withering on the vine.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your down 'n' dirty answers fast in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Savage Love: Blow Over
A fellatio-deprived hubby wants more than he's getting. But how much should he expect?
Savage Love: She Will Not Be Ignored
Two marriages in, and she still can't let go of the idea of a forever relationship with her "first love." Is she gonna drop it or what?
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