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SAVAGE LOVE: Out and About
At 45, a married woman discovers she's a lesbian—but wants to stay married to her man, AND keep her girlfriend, AND be accepted by her family. Can she have it all?
At 45, a married woman discovers she's a lesbian—but wants to stay married to her man, AND keep her girlfriend, AND be accepted by her family. Can she have it all?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Holiday kinks, sneaky sex, anal etiquette, and more in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Holiday kinks, sneaky sex, anal etiquette, and more in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Turkey Run
When he says "eat me," he means it literally.
When he says "eat me," he means it literally.
SAVAGE LOVE: Twinning
"I might be falling in love with my husband’s identical twin brother." 👯♂️
SAVAGE LOVE: Mourning in America
Advice for those who feel like democracy has abandoned them.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your advice lickety-split with the latest edition of Savage Love quickies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Cope Don't Seethe
He says he doesn't have sexual fantasies... OR DOES HE?
SAVAGE LOVE: The Rich Are Different
"I am incredibly rich, sexy, and have lots of lovers. Whatever will I do??"
SAVAGE LOVE: Ace Space Case
"As a sex-repulsed asexual gay man, I feel alienated when I enter gay spaces like bars, parties, clubs."
SAVAGE LOVE: Struggle Sessions
It's amateur night at Savage Love, where YOU get to give snappy answers to desperate questions!
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your Savage hot takes to your most pressing quick questions here! And don't miss this week's SAVAGE LOVECAST with guest Caleb Hearon!
SAVAGE LOVE: Vice Grips
Can you "fuck the Republican" out of someone? Dan—and a former sworn enemy—issue a ruling.
SAVAGE LOVE: Role Perversal
A longtime couple finally admit their sexy fantasies... but can't carry them out! WHAT CAN BE DONE?
SAVAGE LOVE: Lies That Bind
He repeatedly cheats, she told his family and friends. Are they both in the wrong?
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
The "daddy/babygirl" dynamic, asexual curious, holding in your orgasm, swallowing curved appendages, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Top Five
Dan picks five letters from his mailbag at random... and they are doozies!
SAVAGE LOVE: Game On
His attempts at spontaneous sex are ANNOYING. Why is he doing it, and how can she get him to STOP?
SAVAGE LOVE: What Eats You
She's queer and doesn't like to be licked. Why can't people get that through their heads?
SAVAGE LOVE: Big Ask
A question that might not be for Dan, and another that DEFINITELY is.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Got sex problems? Get 'em answered quick with this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: Same Page
He doesn't want to have sex anymore. Can this relationship be saved... and if so, how?
SAVAGE LOVE: Solo Survivor
"After time apart (and having sex with others), should we introduce new people into our relationship?"
SAVAGE LOVE: The Outsiders
A married man in an open relationship needs advice about how to ask for what (and who) he wants on dating apps.
SAVAGE LOVE: Allowances
She refuses to indulge in his feeder/gainer kink—can he just turn his feelings off?
SAVAGE LOVE: Wants v. Gots
She's got an international part-time lover... but wants more. Should she ask for it?
SAVAGE LOVE: Bruise Control
A reader who hurts himself feels like he's being judged while people into BDSM get celebrated. What's the difference?
Savage Love: Feathered Friends (With Benefits)
Grandma has a very... unusual... relationship with her pet parakeet. (Gulp.)
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Pegging purists, jilted unicorns, cheating BFs, and more!
SAVAGE LOVE: Slick Moves
"My sex pal won't stop mishandling our lube." Can Dan help this person navigate their slippery situation?
SAVAGE LOVE: Mommy Issues
"My 13-year-old son is involved in an online Dom/sub relationship. Ummmm... HELP!!"
SAVAGE LOVE: Frozen
"I've never been able to orgasm, and my current sexual relationship stinks. So why should I continue trying?"
Savage Love: Messed Up
"My boyfriend is secretly asking for 'punitive' acts from strangers. That's cheating... right?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Online lust, stinky butts, and falling in love with one's sex worker—all these and more in this edition of Savage Love "quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: Mask 4 Mask
"I post fetish content on the internet. How worried should I be that someone, like a future boss, might find out?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Priced Out
Her boyfriend wants permission to hire sex workers. Is this a case of irreconcilable differences?
SAVAGE LOVE: Best Interests
Will his new polyamorous lifestyle endanger his current child custody agreement? Depends on where he lives!
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
How to make a "throuple," defining undefinable relationships, tempting your workaholic lover, and much more in this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!
SAVAGE LOVE: What Counts
Is a woman having an emotional affair with a married man "micro-cheating"? And is the concept of "micro-cheating" bullshit? LET'S FIND OUT.
SAVAGE LOVE: Dom and Dommer
She's been dominating him and he seems to love it... is this a problem or the beginning of a beautiful (and hot) relationship?
SAVAGE LOVE: Power Moves
After a lifetime of one-sided relationships, they finally found someone they're truly attracted to. Cue the freakout!
SAVAGE LOVE: The Long Game
"Should I dump my girlfriend before or after we join a kink/swingers club?"
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies!
Non-app dating, gay nude resorts, oral sex etiquette, and lots more in this edition of "Quickies"!
Savage Love: Routine Maintenance
Maintenance sex: A necessary (often fun) chore or nonconsensual nonsense? Dan Savage weighs in.
SAVAGE LOVE: Smash Button
She's kinky and poly; he's vanilla and monogamous. Can this relationship be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
Platonic vs. romantic love, the right type of lube, hopping back on the fuck wagon, and more in this episode of Savage Love quickies!
Savage Love: Micro Nots
She's wondering what she did to get dumped... but first? Let's talk about polyamory.
Savage Love: Script Doctor
She's married and has a "hall pass"—but how can she find out if her workplace crush also has a "hall pass"?
Savage Love: Loading Zone
This week, Savage tackles the eternal question: "Why are some people addicted to orgies?"
Savage Love: Sexless Wonders
Can a relationship be successful even if the sex is terrible from the start?
Savage Love: Christmas Break
A cuckold falls in love (and has "amazing sex") with his mother-in-law... or did he?
Savage Love: Quickies
Let's end the year with a hot load of quickie sex questions (and answers)!
Savage Love: Departures
He's been a bottom long enough, but hubby isn't having it. Now that he's found someone new, should he try to make his marriage work?
SAVAGE LOVE: Maintenance Haze
He ruined his relationship by chasing after the unattainable sexy neighbor. Now what should he do?
Savage Love: What Was Lost
She can't get over losing her ex—what's an out-and-proud goddess to do?
Savage Love: Thanks Again
His hubby did something BAD to the Thanksgiving family casserole... can this marriage be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
Strap in and strap on—it's time for more of your quickie sex questions answered lickety-split!
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Savage Love: Him City
He's gay, but lives in Salt Lake City. In order to find a lasting relationship, should he move?
Savage Love: Not Glue
She's accused of something her partner had been doing to her for years, but still... should she feel bad?
Savage Love: A New Dom
He has dreams of being a Dom, but there are... complications. What can he do to prepare?
Savage Love: Animal Urges
A victim of childhood abuse is overwhelmed by guilt and shame. Will healing ever be an option?
Savage Love: Quickies
Masturbation tricks, lube recommendations, and lots more quickie (and sexy) Q & As!
Savage Love: The Finish Delegation
This guy thinks his controlled premature ejaculations are HOT—but does he need to let his partners know?
SAVAGE LOVE: Popping Off
Should one warn their sex partner before doing poppers? Dan Savage sniffs out the truth.
Savage Love: Didn't Happen
A reader's wife might be cucking him... but not the way he claims.
SAVAGE LOVE: The Italian Job
Not all Italian relationships are hot—in fact, this one is withering on the vine.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your down 'n' dirty answers fast in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!
Savage Love: Blow Over
A fellatio-deprived hubby wants more than he's getting. But how much should he expect?
Savage Love: She Will Not Be Ignored
Two marriages in, and she still can't let go of the idea of a forever relationship with her "first love." Is she gonna drop it or what?
Savage Love: Millstones
His partner is demanding “relationship milestones”—but is that too heavy of a lift?
Savage Love: Age Played
A dude in his 40s slept with someone who he thought was 21—but was actually much younger. How shitty should he feel?
Savage Love: Family Ties
A single nightmare dad joke ruined bondage for me. Do I need therapy now?
Savage Love: Take Care
In this week's column: "After two sexless decades, how can I let my partner know my needs aren't being met?"
Savage Love: Quickies
Pineapple-flavored cum, health concerns over licking armpits, and lots more quickie, sexy Qs!
Savage Love: First Trap
She's never been kissed... or had sex. Forget about getting her groove back, how's she gonna get it in the first place?
Savage Love: TEARS Factor
She's the "other woman," but wait... it's more complicated than that.
Savage Love: Topside
He wants her to be his Dom Goddess, and she's like, "what?"... but turned on. So where does she start?
Savage Love: What To Expect
Lack of sex leads to a slow motion matrimonial train wreck.
SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Get your sexual problems solved lickety-split with this quick 'n' dirty edition of Savage Love!
Savage Love: Out With It
Happy Pride! Here is the most LGBTQ shit Dan has ever read.
Savage Love: Appetite For Destruction
An apparently "famous" artist doesn't want the world to know he's bisexual—and apparently doesn't realize that no one gives a shit.
Savage Love: How's That?!
"I like to pee on myself. Got a problem with that?"
Savage Love: Wash It Away
Is it possible to "un-sleep" with someone, and like Cher, "turn back time"?
Savage Love: Chick Lit
She's got erotic literature on the brain. And that's good... right? Or is it?
Savage Love: Fake and Faker
He agreed to be a financial slave to his supposedly domineering wife... but Savage smells a RAT.
Savage Love: Questions
She complains about his BO following sex—but is there something else going on besides a sensitive snoot?
Savage Love: Shameful
Hubby's into diaper play; wifey is losing her shit. Can this mind be saved?
Savage Love: Quickies
"Ruined" orgasms, lack of fuckability concerns, and lots more quicky sex queries!
Savage Love: Sister, Wife
"My wife's sister texted to say she has my wife's permission to sleep with me. Ummmm... WHAT."
Savage Love: Asked and Answered
A lesbian in a 10-year sexless marriage wants to re-spark the connection... but is this a "too little, too late" situation?
Savage Love: Size Peace
She's ashamed of the way her body looks... is there any way to feel sexy again?
Coming Around
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: She was never able to have vaginal penetration orgasms before... but now? BLAMMO! What's up with that?
Quickies
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Abortion pills, escorts, and how to get laid at the gym!
Charades
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: Hubby keeps sending love letters to his ex, despite wifey telling him to stop. Can this marriage be saved?
Pegged As Bi
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: She's okay with pegging his butt... but pegging his face, too?
Kant Say No
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: A sugar daddy wants to give him his entire fortune. Should he take it?
Dom Vibes
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: She's into BDSM, hubby is definitely not. Can this relationship be saved?
Quickies!
Need your sex life fixed in a hurry? This edition of SAVAGE LOVE "Quickies" can help!
Case Disclosed
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: "My BF has undetectable HIV. How much should we disclose to future play partners?"
Manners
In this week's SAVAGE LOVE: "Am I being used as a pawn in my lover's sex games with his primary partner?"
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