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Balancing tech with outdoor play is something I bet youâve fretted over in your daily fretting routineâbut getting your kids into nature doesnât necessarily mean outfitting them in Patagonia and embarking on miles-long wilderness excursions. A strip of woods at the edge of a park, or even a vacant lot (if you can find one), is enough to get the benefits of straight-up nature. Hereâs how to stop worrying and get outside.
Before you even step off the porch, know that the benefits of the outdoors can come just by looking at it. No kidding! A study by Kate E. Lee from the University of Melbourne showed that looking a green spaceâeven just a green roofâincreased sustained attention. If it isnât too much of an inconvenience, even switching bedrooms to give children a greener view allows them to reap the benefits of nature.
Turn off the local news and repeat to yourself: âItâs not as dangerous out there as it sounds.â Consider statistics that show your kid is more likely to be harmed during the drive to school than nabbed by a predator. And sure, thereâs always the risk of outdoor injuries (and dirty clothes), but itâs been shown that kids achieve more balance and agility in rough terrains than in perfect parks and padded playgrounds. A skinned knee is survivable. Clothes can be washed. Itâs a small price to pay for the sensory and intellectual benefits of experimenting with nature.
You know what your kid needs to play outside? Just some weather-appropriate clothes. Thatâs it. You donât need to over-plan, or watch them like a hawk. They donât need special outdoor toys, gadgets, or games. Sticks and rocks will become their swords and building blocks. This kind of play builds creativity, and the more loose and unstructured their time is, the better.
As a parent, itâs good to hang back (as much as is appropriate for your kidâs age). Allowing a kid to take risks and learn from mistakes, even if it occasionally leads to tears, has been shown to boost self-confidence and self-esteem. Feel free to foster curiosity in smaller children with questions like, âWhy is this plant growing here and not there?ââbut older children will benefit from unsupervised outdoor time.
The important part is that kids get a chance to get their hands dirty and be active in relatively untamed spaces. It doesnât have to be for hours on endâin fact, you can start slow with 30 minutes a day. Youâll find that the time will grow as your kid begins to crave the outdoors. Youâll likely benefit too, making those big worries that much smaller.Â