I’m 30, a cis female, romantically attracted to men and sexually attracted to men and women. (Whatever that is? Heteroflexible?) Anyway, I’m engaged to the absolute love of my life, it blows me away everyday how compatible we are, he’s the fucking best person I know. My question is in regards to this: we are […]
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A Peek Into the HUMP! 2018 Jury Room
“To See What I Have Seen, To See What I See!”: Inside the HUMP! jury room. The annual HUMP! film festival—featuring sexy ‘n’ hilarious five-minute dirty movies submitted by sex positive amateurs from around the Pacific Northwest and beyond—doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. We get upwards of 100 submissions every year, and only accept […]
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I’m Turned On When I Force My Boyfriend to Eat, but Am I Forcing Him to Eat Too Much?
Savage Love Letter of the Day
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I’m up to My Eyeballs in Covet—Is It Time for Divorce?
Savage Love Letter of the Day
Originally published on Feb 17, 2011. I am a straight man. From high school through college and after, I loved me some women. Then I met my present girl 10 years ago. I fell head over heels for her. I still love her. But, little by little, she has become boring to me. Our sex […]
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Humanity Had a Good Run. Now It’s Time for Us To Go Extinct.
INÉS ESTRADA When I arrived at Cathedral Park to meet Les Knight, I figured I’d be able to pick his face out of the crowd. I had, after all, watched an interview Knight did with Tucker Carlson in 2005, during which he was dressed in a shade of khaki that only a soft-spoken environmentalist would […]
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ICYMI: Sexual Compatibility Is Important
Savage Love Letter of the Day
I’m an out (thanks partly to your encouragement) bi/pan cis male in my late twenties. My partner is a good provider and friend and we cohabitate cohabitate reasonably well. We just reached four years into our relationship. My partner is ACE and she identifies as grey-a homoromantic. I have a high libido and I’m low-key […]
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His Boyfriend Sexts Other People—Why Does It Hurt Him So Much?
Savage Love Letter of the Day
I could really use your advice with regards to my relationship, since I wanna sit down with my boyfriend and have a final, end-it-or-continue-it talk in the near future, and I am completely lost as to how to address certain issues or even start this talk. We’ve been in this relationship for two years now. […]
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Her One Night Stand Didn’t Tell Her About His Husband—Does She Have a Right To Be Angry?
Savage Love Letter of the Day
Savage Love Letter of the Day
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Here’s Why #BigfootErotica Was Trending On Twitter Last Night
If a thing exists, someone somewhere is beating off about it. Balloons, swim caps, toothbrushes, toasters, socks, galoshes—you name it and someone somewhere is beating off about it right now. If a thing lives, someone somewhere wants to fuck it—or be fucked by it—and a living thing doesn’t even have to be alive for someone […]
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She Was In Love With Him Until She Wasn’t—Is That Normal?
I am a 28-year-old pansexual polyamorous woman. I am in the process of breaking things off with a lovely guy, “Norman,” who I’ve been seeing, first in the same state, and then long distance, for about six months. I was madly in love with him, but now I’m not. Is this normal? He is still […]
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My Stepfather Asked Me to Spank Him—Right After My Mom and Brother Died
Savage Love Letter of the Day
I don’t know who else to turn to right now. A little backstory before my “problem.” In April, we lost my younger brother and my parents’ house in a fire. In June, my mom died from a massive heart attack. I’ve been trying to help my stepdad get everything put back together since then. My […]
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Submit Your Dirty Film to HUMP! (Where the Grand Prize is… $10,000!?!)
CALLING ALL SEXY PEOPLE! (Especially amateur filmmakers, actual filmmakers, sex-positive singles/couples/throuples/quads, wannabe porn stars, kinksters, and other creative types!) You are hereby invited to submit your short porn films—five minutes max—for the HUMP! 2018 film festival! Your mini-movie can be hardcore, softcore, live action, stop action, animated, musical, kinky, vanilla, straight, gay, lez, bi, trans, and […]