This letter was originally published on Apr 9, 2009. I recently discovered, accidentally, while moving things out of my 16-year-old son’s room prior to a renovation, a cache of my sex toys that had mysteriously disappeared over the past year. While I’ve wondered how it was possible to misplace a glow-in-the-dark crucifix-shaped dildo (complete with […]
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Trump Administration: What Else Can We Fuck Up? Hey, Let’s Work to Drive Teen Pregnancy and Abortion Rates Back Up!
We were seeing headlines like these in 2016 and into 2017… Pregnancy, Birth and Abortion Rates in US Adolescents Hit Historic Lows Teen abortion, pregnancy rates reach historic lows U.S. Abortion Rate Falls To Lowest Level Since Roe v. Wade Greater access to effective, long-lasting contraception and federal support for comprehensive sex education programs gets […]
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Savage Love Letter of the Day: Sexual Compatibility Is Important (So Establish It Before You Make A Baby!)
I’m a 35-year-old mostly straight guy with a love for kink. I’ve been with my girlfriend for nine years, we have an 16-month-old son together, and I love both of them very much. In my younger years, I was active in the swinging community, I hooked up with couples and singles, and I enjoyed exploring […]
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Savage Love Letter of the Day: Who Wants Head? (Also, R.I.P. Craigslist Personal Ads)
First, a quickie: I’m going to spare you the long boring intro/background/angst/handwringing and get straight to my question: How can someone be having a satisfactory sex life by only giving head? Want The Facts Some people only suck toes and have satisfactory sex lives, WTF. Some people only lay the floor of leather bars in […]
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Senate Passes Bill That Will Hurt the Internet and Sex Workers
Getty Images On Wednesday, the Senate passed an “anti-sex trafficking” bill that has far wider consequences that protecting victims of sex trafficking—and not all of them good. The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act, or SESTA, as well as the House version of the bill (the Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act, […]
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Get Your Tickets NOW for the Best of HUMP!
Catch up on the Finest Short Porn Flicks from 10 Years of Your Favorite Dirty Film Fest
Everyone loves HUMP! (AKA America’s sweetest homegrown porn festival). But what if you made the disappointing mistake of missing one of HUMP!’s sexy shorts? FEAR NOT! Because the BEST OF HUMP! is coming to Portland this summer and tickets are on sale NOW. With permission from the directors and actors, we are proud to present […]
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A Politicized Dick Pic
“Just couldn’t resist sending you this after your rant about politicians and their dick pics at the top of last week’s Savage Lovecast,” writes James C. “In my country (The Netherlands) it is local elections this week and as a poster for one of the most liberal parties one gentleman has turned his party’s openness […]
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The First Junk: We’re Going to See Those Pics
Every Trump supporter who calls Stormy Daniels a “scank” (sic) on Twitter brings us one step closer to seeing our first (but not our last) presidential dick pic. Because with each passing day/each insulting tweet, Daniels seems more determined to show-and-tell all. NBCNews: Adult film star Stormy Daniels is offering to give back the $130,000 […]
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Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Boyfriend Sent His Ex-Wife an E-Valentine
She’s had it.
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Savage Love Letter of the Day: DTMFA! DTMFA! DTMFA!
This isn’t a relationship. It’s a hostage situation.
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Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Parents Might Disown Me for Being Gay
Dear Mr. Dan Savage, I think my parents might disown me for being gay, and I don’t know what to do. Please hear me out. I understand that you are very busy with your work, and you probably don’t have the time to get through each and every email. But I feel that none of […]