Sounds like intervention time. You, your roommate, church lady and her husband that drinks to tolerate her. As popular as this site is, the chances are oh say 18% that she'll see this. Have you told her about the Portland Merc I/anonymous? If so send her an email or text saying "there's some good rants in the ol I/A today". Believe me if she's comatose she'll figure out which one you meant. She'll probably call you (not much way to answer these issues in a text, unless she just wants to give you a kiss off). If you need a moderator for the big smack down....let me know. I'll tee her up for you and you can throw your best vitriol out and make (in a perfect world) her a better person in your calm patient way. (I do not know how to do that).