Very long story short, Iām a woman in the process of getting out of a long and abusive marriage. Iām getting therapy. One factor of that abuse: Iām still a virgin, at least as far as penetration is concerned. (Thatās another long story.) If I can even find anybody interested in me, how do I tell them the only stuff I know about consensual sex is what Iāve read about it? The few people Iāve told the full story didnāt believe me at first. All I can imagine is a new person running away.
Various Insecurities Rock Genuinely Inexperienced Newbie
You shouldnāt hesitate to tell someoneāparticularly a new person you want to have sex withāthat youāve never had penetrative sex before. And while you donāt owe that new person the full story, VIRGIN, you might wanna tell them what you told me. Give them the outline: You want to fuck...
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...but you recently got out of an abusive marriage and youāre getting professional help to deal with the emotional falloutāso youāre not asking them to be your therapistābut you are understandably nervous and more than a little scared about the fucking youād like to do...
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