The 1975 documentary Grey Gardens is a
skin-crawlingly disturbing profile of mother and daughter “Big Edie”
and “Little Edie” Beale, aunt and cousin to Jackie Kennedy, two old
women of questionable sanity living together in a decaying, filthy,
28-room estate swarming with cats, raccoons, and fleas. The doc has
been variously lauded as a cult classic and criticized as exploitative,
and watching it feels queasily voyeuristic: On the one hand, it’s easy
to see why drag queens are drawn to dressing as Little Edie, an
outrageous character prone to operatic proclamations and bizarre,
homemade outfits. On the other? No matter how outrageous they are, it’s
really not fucking cool watching old ladies eat cat food, as the Beales
were known to do when the money ran low.
Doug Wright, who also penned I Am My Own Wife, which ran at
Portland Center Stage in 2006, wrote the musical adaptation of this
campy, complicated mess. Wright’s challenge was to render the Beales
fit for Broadwayโto contain both draggy charm and shocking
devastation within the parameters of a two-hour play, without losing
the audience altogether. By necessity, this adaptation hews to a
romantic understanding of the Beales’ life, one which frames their
tragedy as that of strong-willed, creative women born in the wrong era,
lashed together in a decaying estate by love, resentment, and the
creeping knowledge that only in each other will they find the audience
their frustrated ambitions require. (It is equally possible to frame
their tragedy as that of two codependent old nutbags born too
privileged to cope with even the most basic worldly requirements once
the money ran out. That interpretation, however, would probably not
have made it to Broadway.)
The musical is cleverly structuredโthe entire play is set in
Grey Gardens, the Beales’ house; Act One in 1941, Act Two in 1973. This
gives us a glimpse of life before the fall, when Little Edie and Big
Edie were just regular ol’ East Hampton dwellers, spending their days
canoodling with the Kennedys. In 1941, Little Edie is a
not-so-fresh-faced debutante engaged to marry Joe Kennedy Jr., a match
that seems largely designed to get her out of the house. When Big Edie,
out of loneliness or jealousy or both, sabotages the engagement, the
door slams shut on Little Edie’s chances for a life of her own.
Janine DiVita’s performance as Little Edie is deliciously
conflicted, as she seemingly careens through the entire spectrum of
emotions a daughter can feel toward a mother; but somehow she seems
like the only character on stage with anything to lose. The first act,
dogged by low-stakes conflict and cutesy musical numbers, feels like an
extended preamble to the juicier second act, when the script hops
forward 30 years. The predictably elaborate set literally turns its
back on respectability, and the audience comes crashing into a world of
surreal squalor. It’s here that the show hits its stride, thanks
largely to the confident performance of Rebecca Eichenbeger as a
grown-up Little Edie, addressing the crowd as though it were a camera
and capturing the strangeness and complexity of the relationship
between these women in a way that the monotonic first act never quite
does.
The show’s musical
numbers, performed by a live orchestra under the conduction of Reece Marshburn, are the driest part of the
show, a too-pretty distraction from the relationships that are at the
heart of this show’s appeal. Keep your eye on the relationships,
thoughโon the how and the why and then whenโand a rewarding
and moving production emerges.

Great review, Alison. I can see the main difference in our opinion stems from the first act, which seemed more robust to me than you describe (despite the excessive amount of plot-redundant showtunin’, I admit).
The orchestra is not recorded.
A live orchestra, with Rick Lewis as musical director and Reece Marshburn conducting, complements the production beautifully. The orchestra is behind the set, and that, along with brilliant sound design by Casi Pacilio, makes the music easy to hear without overpowering the singers. Every instrument’s contribution is clearly appreciated in the score, and works in partnership with singers better than on any musical I’ve heard in town before.
Yipes! I didn’t see any musicians, and they weren’t credited in the programโI will amend that.
One who is unable to distinguish between a live or pre-recorded orchestra(or even bother to find out before publishing a review) is not qualified to comment on the quality of their sound. This was an extremely complicated score, and the timing and quality of the band was anything but dry, and the balance was impeccable.