Why can't everyone just be honest with each other? I wouldn't feel like this if he had just been honest with me from the beginning. If his intention was to not hurt me then it didn't work. I'm much more hurt now finding out on my own, than if he would have just told me. Now I face a dilemna. Do I let him get away with it? Do I disappear into the background like he's hoping? Or do I tell him what's up? Would it help? Would he quit doing this to people?