I’m a 29-year-old straight woman, I’m faced with a dilemma, and I’d love your take on the situation. A guy wants to get back together with me, but… well, I should first give some backstory. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was exactly the guy I was looking […]
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Savage Love Letter of the Day: Different Strokes
Ever since I was young, I’ve masturbated differently than everyone else. I don’t play with myself with my hand. Instead what I do is I lie on the floor and hump the floor and the pressure between my leg and the floor usually feels good and that makes me cum. I’ve done this ever since […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Scent of a Woman
Hey Dan. My girlfriend listens to you and sorry I hadn’t heard of you until her. But I have a problem and I want to tell her but don’t know how so I thought of you. Her butt smells often like butt sweat and shit and it’s a major turn off like when she sits […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: For Old Timer’s Sake
Hi Dan Savage. I am 78. Wife passed on sex for last 15-18 years. It is driving me crazy. I don’t want a divorce but I would really like some sexual companionship. How might I go about it? Suggetions? Distressed Elder Seeking Direction Everyone out there reading thisโeveryone besides, it seems, the person who sent […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Quad Squad
My S.O. and I recently started a polyamorous relationship with another couple, who have been our friends for some time. We see each other pretty regularly for non-sex encounters and sometimes we get together to just hang out. For the first time we were hanging out and I just wasn’t feeling it. I attempted to […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: If He Comes Out at Work, Will He Always Have to Talk About Being Gay?
How do I become known as “openly gay” to my employer’s management? I am a 33-year-old gay man. I do not, nor do I want to, talk about my personal life at work. Even if I did I am not now and haven’t been in a serious, long-term relationship for many years. So, I have […]
This Is Insane: House Passes Law Calling For Mandatory 15-Year Prison Sentences for Half of All Teenagers
Speaker of the House Paul Ryan Elizabeth Nolan Brown at Reason: Teens who text each other explicit images could be subject to 15 years in federal prison under a new bill that just passed the House of Representatives…. Most of the opposition centered on the bill’s effective expansion of mandatory-minimum prison sentences. One vocal critic […]
The Best Places in Portland to Shop for… Everything Else
Portland is also a great place to spend your travel allowance on the cool stuff that will make your friends back home drool with jealousy. Such as… RECORD STORES TOP PICK:ย Mississippi Records This independent record store crams countless vinyl into its small confines, but given space and time to explore, one visit can yield rare […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Italian Job
Hi, Dan, 26-year-old woman from Australia here. I am flying to Italy on Saturday for a three week visit with my 29-year-old boyfriend while he is studying there for three months. Problem is, I want to break up with him. What’s the right way to do it? Before I leave? While I am there? When […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: Young Lovers Lie, Cheat, and Wonder Why Their Relationship Sucks
I’ve been in a two-year relationship with a guy who was my first serious partner and my first sexual experience. It was all great with little ups and downsโuntil seven months ago when I discovered he was cheating. I came to his house and there was a girl living with him. She said he was […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: Getting Off with a Selfish Top
Iโm a poz guy in his 50โs. I live in a city in the middle of America and lost my partner almost nine years ago. Iโve been taking care of an elderly parent and havenโt made time to have a sex life until about six months ago. I joined Adam4Adam and ran into an acquaintance […]
Savage Love Letter of the Day: He DTMFA’d But She Won’t Leave His House
I’m a 37-year-old man, who has been in a monogamous relationship with the same woman for six years. Shortly after moving in with me in the house I own, she quit her job. She’s been unemployed for five years now. We’ve had sex once in the last three years. Even though I care about her […]
