Sex

I’m the oldest sister in a tight-knit family. My middle sister, who lives across the country, wants to have a destination wedding out of the country next spring. My youngest sister and I tried to persuade her to get married closer to home when she first pitched the idea—not only because the whole thing is […]

It’s taken a lot to do this but here goes. I am a 38-year-old gay male. I have been dating this this guy for one year and ten months. It’s been a lot of work. He cheated on me numerous times and he lives with me and doesn’t work and I’ve been taking care of […]

Have you ever done it hanging from a cliff in your mountain climbing harness? This caller has. They named the climb “Quarantine.” Meanwhile in Italy, a woman managed to slip a finger in her boyfriend’s butt. He didn’t stop her, but didn’t say anything about it, and they haven’t discussed it since. How can she […]

I have a question regarding sexual relations with my wife of thirty years. For at least the last twenty-five years of our marriage, I have found my wife’s interest in sex to be less than enthusiastic. She’ll deny this fact (and has!), but her interest noticeably declined after we had our first child. Our second […]

The 15th Annual HUMP! Film Festival spring tour was off to an awesome start. We went to Oakland, Albuquerque, Los Angeles, Palm Springs, Long Beach, and Columbus… and then COVID19 shut the whole world down. Like everyone and everything else, we had to shut ourselves inside and cancel everything. We were totally crushed. Folks worked […]

I’m 30, bi, male and in a heterosexual marriage. I’ve always had sex dreams about both genders. Six months ago, I finally admitted to myself I’m bi and began exploring different pornography and fantasies. I waited a few months prior to coming out to my very progressive partner who’s best friend is bi and has […]

Hear the tale of the Garden Wanker, or “What Really Happens in the Asparagus Patch.” Dr. Bummer is back! Our epidemiologist pal Dr. Daniel Westreich has returned to talk about the state of the pandemic, how the physical distancing is working, and to mull over the possibility that this could be an opportunity to eliminate […]

I’m a cis bisexual woman in her mid-20s who’s been in a relationship with a wonderful queer man for about two years. I’m pretty kinky and my boyfriend, for the most part, is not. We’ve had plenty of talks about things we like, things we fantasize about, the works. He is very understanding of our […]