I was hoping that you might have some advice for communicating with my partner during this pandemic. I want to start by saying that I still love and adore my partner, I’m just finding it really difficult to communicate with him because he gets so emotional whenever there is even the slightest bit of conflict. […]
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New Savage Lovecast: Time to Lawyer Up!
This pandemic is getting sexier and sexier! Who’s up for some Strip Ping-Pong? A gay man hooked up with a dude he had met a few months ago through an app. The dude asked our caller if he found him attractive. But the dude’s photo was wildly inaccurate. He had gained weight since the photo […]
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Savage Love: Big Moves
Joe Newton I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was told by the church to save it for marriage and I was a virgin until met the woman who would become my wife at a party. I said to hell with it, we […]
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Savage Love: The New Guy With the Big Dick Or the Old Standby With the Big Dick?
I’m projecting forward to the end of strict social distancing and face a dilemma I cannot figure out. I’m an ethically non-monogamous female, currently involved with two great men. I live with neither of them, so am of course not seeing them physically right now. One I have been dating for longer, we have a […]
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Savage Love: Her Partner’s Libido Is Tanking—Is COVID-19 to Blame?
I have a question about COVID-19 and what kind of effect a crisis can have on a man’s libido. I am a heterosexual woman in my thirties and have had a steady monogamish partner for twelve years. We have been sharing an apartment together for a big part of our relationship in which we have […]
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Savage Love: Quickies
Joe Newton I am a super queer presenting female who recently accepted that I have desires for men. My partner of two years is bisexual and understands the desires, but has personally dealt with those desires via masturbation while my desires include acting. Her perspective is that the grass is greener where you water it and that […]
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New Savage Lovecast: With America’s Sweetheart, Erin Gibson!
We open with a quarantine sex story, in which a woman’s boyfriend pulls on one of her dresses, and things get even better from there. A woman in a poly relationship knows she has to end things soon with her primary partner. So, naturally, she started sleeping with her roommate. Is it time to pull […]
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Savage Love: Longtime Reader In Sexually Unfulfilling Relationship Knows What She Has To Do
Been reading your column for twenty years. I’m 34 years old now and I’m reaching out for advice for the first time. I’ve been with my partner for three years. I love him very much and I’m content in the other aspects of our relationship. Things have always been very tame in the bedroom, with […]
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Savage Love: Hypno Kinkster Cheating Right Under Her Husband’s Nose
Your questions about COVID-19 have been boring. People use you not only for advice, Dan, but as escapism, as entertainment. And I thought a question about my situation might be more interesting than any of the ones you’ve been answering recently. I’m a bisexual cisgender female, married for over a decade. My marriage has been […]
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Savage Love: The No-Pandemic Challenge
Joe Newton Your last two columns and your last two podcasts were all about the pandemic. Everything everywhere is all about the pandemic right now. Can you give it a rest? For maybe a week? Could you answer some questions that aren’t about pandemic? Any fun kink questions come in this week? I could all […]
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Savage Love: Could This Powerful Dude Be In Love With the Guy Who’s Sleeping With His Wife?
As a sex advice columnist and Broadway musical fan, do you agree that Camelot had the love triangle dynamics all wrong? Obviously the tip of the triangle is Lancelot, not Guinevere. King Arthur is gay! His first song—”I Wonder What the King Is Doing Tonight”—is all about his terror of getting married. (“You mean that […]
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Savage Love: They Broke Up Right Before the Lock Down
My partner and I have been together for 4+ years. It fizzled out and we recently had “the talk” of moving on and him finding a new place. We were both adults about it, no hard feelings. Then COVID-19 hit and the world halted. Now, we remain just awkward and in this house together for […]