Ok, I, Anonymous folks ~ what is the protocol?
I have a small, 2 bedroom duplex that a couple shares with me . I live out in the garage ~ across the house. There is very little insulation against sound. They moved into my house a year ago.
There are issues ~ they are both transgender & are not sexually intimate with each other ~ for 5 years. Their reaction to any noise is to freak out & feel that they are being attacked. Me listening to music, the neighbors kids playing or dog barking, etc., turns into a week long freak out fest because somebody is trying to fuck with their lives.
i recently started seeing an ex, again. He comes over on weekends, & we fuck ~ loudly & a lot. She has complained that he “sits on the couch & reads” & he played the piano in my room for 30 seconds. Need i mention that she lives here with her boyfriend, who i can’t stand, & neither of them work or have a social life? Hence, they are here 24-7. ( and I have financially supported them for at least half of the last year)
I know her well, & I smell jealousy. I also care for her, a lot. But, what do i do? i am finally!!! having good sex & real loving for the first time in a very long time, & she wants to make it about her. What should i do to compromise?i’m 40 yrs. old. My child is out of the house. i should be able to fuck when i want. And i won’t walk out of my room on a glorious sunday morning, to make coffee, only to be screamed at that i am intentionally traumatizing them. What to do?

11 replies on “Sex & Roommates”

  1. You know what you need to do. Why do you need us to bless it? Take responsibility for your life and home. You’re not going to “avoid conflict” with these people, so either you go or they go, or you learn to ignore them, or at least tell them to fuck off and mind their own business. “I care for her” is not an excuse not to take care of yourself.

  4. The protocol is for you to give them their 90 day move out notice as soon as you are legally allowed. I am surprised you’ve allowed this to go on for so long. It will be hard at first but once they’re gone you will be so glad you did it.

  7. 1st – what the hell does their gender identity and expression have anything to do with the situation? You mentioned it because…..

    2nd – supporting them, really? it seems like you may have some poor boundary skills, maybe you should work on that.

    3rd – move out or ask them to move out, but you already know that. So what is stopping you?

  8. Continue to annoy the shit out of them as you’ve been doing, until they man up and move out of your home. Then, get the new girlfriend to chip in on the rent.

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