FOXTROT Not pictured: foxes, trotting.

If youโ€™re looking for easy metaphors, Foxtrot helpfully explains the one in its title during a scene between a pair of grieving parents. Michael (Lior Ashkenazi) demonstrates to his younger wife Dafna (Sarah Adler) the danceโ€™s simple, repetitive steps, first separating and then bringing his feet back together. โ€œNo matter where you go,โ€ he says, โ€œyou always end up at the same starting point.โ€

The film, too, has a circular nature: The first and third sections in its three-act format echo each other in their near-claustrophobic focus on Michael and Dafna as they process the news that their soldier son, Jonathan (Yonatan Shiray), has been killed in action. Forget the blatant box-step metaphor, though: Israeli writer/director Samuel Maoz does not bring us back to our starting point. Foxtrot is an extraordinary experience, full of sadness, humor, banality, and beauty, and you will likely come out of it changed, or at least moved.

Michael dominates the first chunk of Maozโ€™s triptych, and we watch him suffocated by disbelieving grief while Dafna sleeps under sedation in their Tel Aviv apartment. The rawness of Michaelโ€™s agony collides with the implacable bureaucratic calm of the Israel Defense Forces officers who have brought the family the bad news and attempt to make funeral arrangements. One helpful soldier instructs Michael to drink a glass of water every hour, even setting an alarm on his phone to remind him, but when Michaelโ€™s not sitting in silence or attempting to choke down swallows of water, he lashes out destructively, kicking Jonathanโ€™s poor dog and putting his hand under hot water until it burns the skin. An early twist reframes everything, but I think itโ€™s best left unrevealed, though there are subsequent, crueler twists in Michael and Dafnaโ€™s future.

Gone is the deliberately cramped perspective of Maozโ€™s last film. In its place are a series of fantastic, indelible visuals: a riderless camel; a shipping container slowly sinking into the earth; a young Arab woman caught in the checkpointโ€™s searchlight.

Then Foxtrotโ€™s poetic central section unfolds, and itโ€™s a remarkable mini-film of its own, depicting Jonathan at his post at a desolate border checkpoint. Surrounded by vast stretches of flat, muddy desert and only occasionally disrupted by a lone vehicle, Jonathan and his fellow soldiers are isolated in a limbo of repetition. The filmโ€™s tone turns comically bizarre, using surreal flourishes to depict the dehumanizing day-to-day boredom of the young menโ€™s assignment even as it reveals the undeniable tug of hope. Gone is the deliberately cramped perspective of Maozโ€™s last film, 2009โ€™s excellent, autobiographical Lebanon, which took place entirely inside an Israeli tank during the 1982 Lebanon War. In its place are a series of fantastic, indelible visuals: a riderless camel; a shipping container slowly sinking into the earth; a young Arab woman caught in the checkpointโ€™s searchlight.

Thereโ€™s a sense that maybe weโ€™ve left the real world during this bravura middle sequence: Are we inside Michaelโ€™s head, imagining what the final days of his sonโ€”an aspiring artistโ€”must have been like? But there are details too small and banal to be wholly imagined, and the quiet squalor of the soldiersโ€™ lives is interrupted by brief spasms of casual cruelty, ecstatic release, and, of course, violence. Soon weโ€™re inside Jonathanโ€™s head, too, and his drawings come to life in an animated sequence that may not necessarily tell the truth of Michaelโ€™s biography, but certainly illustrates how Jonathan sees his father.

Despite the Israel-Palestine conflict that colors Foxtrotโ€”and the condemnation the movie received from the Israeli government for one controversial sequenceโ€”Iโ€™d guess that explicit political commentary is the furthest thing from Maozโ€™s mind. Instead, heโ€™s interested in a much more personal type of storytelling, one where hilarity and pain exist on equal footing, like perfectly matched dance partners. Maybe thereโ€™s something to that foxtrot metaphor after all.

Ned Lannamann is a writer and editor in Portland, Oregon. He writes about film, music, TV, books, travel, tech, food, drink, outdoors, and other things.