1. What advice do you have for young people who want to have an open conversation with their partners about changing aspects of their sex life to make it more pleasurable without hurt feelings or awkwardness?Â
 Whatâs more likely to lead to major hurt: A few awkward conversations now that (hopefully) lead to better conversations (and sex) in the future? Or⌠avoiding awkwardness and eventually reaching a point down the road where the sex isnât that great so you have it less and less until one of you cheats or leaves? Your choice.
 2. Dealing with cultural differences: My boyfriend is Italian and weirdly superstitious; at times, itâs anti-science. Not sure what to do here.
Keep your mouth shut, your legs open, and get that EU passport.
3. Do you like tighty-whities?
Whatâs not to like?
4. Weâre two late-blooming bi people in a monogamous relationship. We have small children. Tips for exploring being bi?
Next time grandma babysits⌠say youâre going to the movies but go to a sex club or a swingers party or a mixed queer space, etc. Meet some people, fuck some people. (Pro tip: whoever isnât driving should read the synopsis of the film you told grandma you were going to see out loud in the car on your way home. You wanna be prepared to answer grandmaâs questions. Trust me.)
5. Will semen damage your tooth enamel if you swallow and then sleep without brushing again?
Have you seen my teeth?
6. Is it pee?
Does it matter?
7. My boyfriend and I have just started messing around with chastity. I have been interested in it for a while and got a cock cage, and he put it on for him yesterday. It really turns me on letting him have this much control and I wanna keep going. Any advice as we start this out? Getting kinky with him is so much fun, and I want to get as much out of it as we can!
âThey should check out Redditâs r/chastitytraining for online help, community, and resources,â said Dark-Blue and DB-Vice in a joint statement. Dark-Blue is a dominant hot wife and DB-Vice is her locked (and cucked) husband. âFor detailed sizing guides and high-quality cages, look at KINK3D. Our own advice: put your health first â watch out for swelling, discoloration, or excessive pain at night. Always remember: chastity play is more mental than physical, and that cage is a means to an end. The end being a constant reminder in your pants of your keyholderâs control and your submission.â
Follow Dark-Blue and DB-Vice on Twitter @DarkBlueGoddess.
8. My husband, a trans man, died unexpectedly. How do I respectfully dispose of his dicks?
Iâm so sorry for your loss. If I were in your shoes, it would break my heart to re-home or otherwise dispose of my husbandâs dicks. I would put them in a box, tuck them away on a high shelf someplace, and let my heirs worry about what to do with them when my time comes. Again, so sorry for your loss.
9. I canât make plans the way I did when I was single because of my partnerâs anxiety. What do I do?
Partnered people canât make plans the way single people can â you have to take your partner into consideration, you have to check in with your partner, you canât fly off to Europe on a momentâs notice or disappear into a sex dungeon for a weekend. But while you need to be considerate of your partner and their anxiety, you canât let their anxiety control you â and you should be wary of a partner who leverages their anxiety to isolate or control you. Basically, if youâre never allowed to do anything on your own or see anyone on your own or make plans on your own because it makes your partner anxious⌠thatâs not a partnership, itâs a hostage situation.
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