I’m a 41-year-old heteroflexible female. Eight years married, the last two years have been nonmonogamous. We swing, host orgies, dabble in tantra, and get kinky with power exchange and sensation play. We are poly and each have a significant outside relationship. It sure ain’t always easy, but we feel good in our conscious relationship choices and sexual openness.
You, Dan, have been a huge influence in our journey. Thank you!
A Complicated Life Is Terrific
P.S. Here is a pic of my husband’s cock.
Thanks for the lovely note, ACLIT, and for the equally lovely pic. (Want me to share the pic with folks by adding it to this post? Let me know, ACLIT!) And while I wouldn’t normally post a thank-you note as the SLLOTD, responding to yesterday’s SLLOTD just about killed me. So I’m taking it easy today.
Another letter from the taking-it-easy file—an update from a recent SLLOTDer—after the jump…
TIED is a gay man in Sydney who’s in a Master/slave relationship—his very first relationship ever—with a wonderful submissive guy. But TIED really needs to get tied up himself sometimes, and his submissive boyfriend, who insists on monogamy, isn’t able to do that for him. My advice for TIED is here. TIED sent us this update today…
I don’t know if this went smoothly because I was confident about how it had to be delivered or because it was a conversation he expected. (Or both?) But barring the normal travails of relationships, our story has a happy ending. Thank you!
My boy already knew I needed sensations he doesn’t think he can give me, he asked for an outline of what I might look for elsewhere, and then he declared that he trusts me to stay within that outline—but he doesn’t want me to go into detail about the specifics. He then dropped the subject and went back to making me feel like the luckiest man on the planet. I could not have asked for better if I’d scripted it myself, so I’ll take it!
This Is Enormously Difficult
Who doesn’t love a happy ending? Thanks for the update, TIED!
