Dan Savage

“My boyfriend is secretly asking for ‘punitive’ acts from strangers. That’s cheating… right?”

Online lust, stinky butts, and falling in love with one’s sex worker—all these and more in this edition of Savage Love “quickies”!

“I post fetish content on the internet. How worried should I be that someone, like a future boss, might find out?”

Her boyfriend wants permission to hire sex workers. Is this a case of irreconcilable differences?

Will his new polyamorous lifestyle endanger his current child custody agreement? Depends on where he lives!

How to make a “throuple,” defining undefinable relationships, tempting your workaholic lover, and much more in this edition of Savage Love “Quickies”!

Is a woman having an emotional affair with a married man “micro-cheating”? And is the concept of “micro-cheating” bullshit? LET’S FIND OUT.

She’s been dominating him and he seems to love it… is this a problem or the beginning of a beautiful (and hot) relationship?

After a lifetime of one-sided relationships, they finally found someone they’re truly attracted to. Cue the freakout!

“Should I dump my girlfriend before or after we join a kink/swingers club?”

Non-app dating, gay nude resorts, oral sex etiquette, and lots more in this edition of “Quickies”!

Maintenance sex: A necessary (often fun) chore or nonconsensual nonsense? Dan Savage weighs in.