Dan Savage

“I am incredibly rich, sexy, and have lots of lovers. Whatever will I do??“

“As a sex-repulsed asexual gay man, I feel alienated when I enter gay spaces like bars, parties, clubs.”

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Can you “fuck the Republican” out of someone? Dan—and a former sworn enemy—issue a ruling.

A longtime couple finally admit their sexy fantasies… but can’t carry them out! WHAT CAN BE DONE?

He repeatedly cheats, she told his family and friends. Are they both in the wrong?

The “daddy/babygirl” dynamic, asexual curious, holding in your orgasm, swallowing curved appendages, and more!

Dan picks five letters from his mailbag at random… and they are doozies!

His attempts at spontaneous sex are ANNOYING. Why is he doing it, and how can she get him to STOP?

She’s queer and doesn’t like to be licked. Why can’t people get that through their heads?

A question that might not be for Dan, and another that DEFINITELY is.