Sex

About a two years ago I developed a searing crush on a guy I knew casually. Through complicated circumstances we ended up working together in my small business. (Me as the owner and him as an independent contractor, so neither of us had any sort of authority or professional leverage over the other.) I asked […]

I’m a 25-year-old straight woman. I’ve been a reader of yours since I was in high school and have always put a high value on your advice. For as long as I can remember I’ve been especially attracted to bisexual men. If I were to honestly write up a description of my type, bisexual would […]

I am a female in my 20s and will soon be marrying my boyfriend of four years. We met overseas via a personals site, and while most things are great between us, we do have one issue: group sex. He wants it, I don’t. After we met, my fiancé brought up the idea of group […]

I’m a 33-year-old man, married eight years and mostly happy. My problem seems common: My wife has lost interest in sex. We have sex once every two months, maybe once a month if I’m lucky. When we do, it seems to be good for both of us. We used to have great chemistry and were […]

My partner and I have been together for five months. Before this romance, we had a deep friendship that spanned two years. During our time as friends, I made it very known that I wanted us to try dating because we have chemistry, similar goals, and are compatible in many ways, including sexually. He was […]

I just wanted to say thank you for making your podcast into a venue for frank and open discussion of sexuality. Having been previously been fairly ignorant about others’ kink lifestyles I would not have known how to interpret and respectfully respond to a question that was presented to me this morning. I’m a student […]

Yesterday you lamented the fact that “those relatively easy ‘how-to’ or ‘what-that’ questions” had dried up, so here goes: I recently showed my mother the first few episodes of the magnificent Fleabag (all hail Phoebe Waller-Bridge!) and she found it profoundly disturbing. Her main concern was the (female) lead character’s laissez-faire attitude to anal sex. […]

I’m a 27-year-old female fan from the UK. My mum had twins “out of wedlock” in the 1970s. She didn’t have the financial or emotional support from her Catholic community, so she gave them both up for adoption. They were both adopted together to stable, affluent parents, but due to the laws at the time, […]

I need your help. I have entered into a period of my life where I am devoting all my mental resources toward my academics—grad school—and am not interested in dating. Thus, I bought a Real Doll so that I may enjoy fantastic masturbation during this loveless period. Unfortunately, while my parents were visiting, my mom […]

I was dating this guy for a month. I really like him. The first time we where going to have sex he was partying, if you know what I mean, so he wasn’t fucking me, just eating me. My Pussy, my ass, fingering me. He started fingering my ass but I don’t like that but […]