MAXED OUT

DEAR MERCURYโ€”It’s all good and well that you write about the problems with TriMet, but it occurs to me that you don’t even ride it [“Fare Check,” Feature, Aug 28]. The problem isn’t the buses, it’s the MAX. It either doesn’t validate, won’t accept change, or won’t accept dollars bills. Then there are the slimy little piss ants that consider themselves TriMet cops. They force people who are already paying exorbitant taxes to pay for their inadequacies. They say they don’t have enough money, but they are getting bogus fines left and right.

โ€”KJL

A TRIAL INDEED

DEAR MERCURY NEWS EDITORS: I’m writing regarding a story published in this week’s Portland Mercury, “The Lost List” [News, Sept 11].ย In the story, Mr. Davis wrote that Mr. Dwayne Jones was charged in March with felony Possession of Cocaine and that I sentenced Mr. Jones to six months in jail without a trial. In fact, Mr. Jones entered a plea of guilty to the charge on March 20, 2008 and was sentenced to probation with a condition that he enter and complete a drug treatment program. By entering the plea, he chose to give up his right to trial. Mr. Jones did leave the program in June and was charged with violating that condition of his probation. I sentenced Mr. Jones to six months in jail after finding he violated his probation, but did authorize early release to an inpatient treatment program. Thank you for your continuing coverage on the important public safety issues facing our community. ย 

โ€”Cheryl A. Albrecht, Circuit Court Judge

TEEN SEX POSITIVE

DEAR MERCURY EDITORSโ€”I recognize that the style of writing in the Mercury is often tongue in cheek. However, as someone who cares deeply about sex education and has worked for three years as an HIV test counselor and sex educator, I would like to comment on the Teen Sex Edition [The Mercury‘s Back to School Issue: Teen Sex Edition! Feature, Sept 11]. Dan Savage [“Camping Out”] and Sarah Mirk [“Pop Quiz!”] both wrote articles that were informative and sex-positive, containing useful information by which people, particularly young ones, could broaden their minds on the topic of sex. Though Alison Hallett in “Boning 101” points readers in the right direction: masturbate, practice using condoms alone, and read the Guide to Getting it On!, she has a restrictive tone, telling people what not to do. We have enough sexual “don’t” in our culture, and I wish the article had taken on a more sex-positive tone, i.e., telling the reader that they will increase the satisfaction and safety of their sexual interactions when they take some time to masturbate and acquaint themselves with what turns them on. From the tone of the editors and writers of “Anybody Seen My Virginity?” I can’t tell that it’s undesirable or desirable that teenage girls might not know themselves sexually (“An Audible Pop”) or the male partner would not have any interest in the female partner’s pleasure (“Coming Home”). You fall short where you could have used responses to these stories to educate and open people’s minds somewhat further. Thank you for your time and I look forward to seeing some great steamy articles in your Valentine’s edition.

โ€”Tanuja Goulet

CONGRATULATIONS TO TANUJA for helping to turn some of those “don’ts” into “dos.” Tanuja gets two tickets to the Laurelhurst Theater and lunch at No Fish! Go Fish! where sex positivity does not extend to holding up the bathroom line.

5 replies on “LETTERS TO THE EDITOR”

  1. I found the Back to School issue the least informative and frankly dangerous edition I have read. I enjoy the Mercury and devote my Thursdays to reading it. However, there is no need to be highlighting and encouraging sexual behavior. I made it through high school, college and graduate school without ever having sex. In fact, I am 38 years old and have never had sex and I am perfectly happy and content about it. I’ve been offered sex, but have refused because the person was either drunk or high or was offering me pity sex. I’m worth better I think. How about encouraging people to have a level of civility and standards instead of just jumping into bed for the heck of it.

  2. Lucidei –

    Because some of us really like to fuck. We don’t see anything wrong with it, don’t have issues about – don’t base our self-worth on having sex or not having sex. And like it or not, a lot of kids heading to college, are going to experiment with Teh Sex. I thought that the article you are disparaging here was thoughtful and while far from comprehensive, it provided a lot of really great information to those fuckers to be, who recently hit campus for the first time.

  3. I lost my virginity at a sex party during my sophomore year of high school, when I was 15. I had known that I was going to a party, but I had no idea that it was going to be a sex party. It turned out to be a lot of fun, you know? And my mom didn’t freak out at all when she found out, just asked if I used protection (duh) and if the guy was cute (kind of).

    I guess what I’m trying to say is that growing up in a sex-positive house like I did (plus the comprehensive sex ed I received at school) makes quite an impact. Sure, I was very curious about sex and jumped at it the first chance I got, but I have yet to have a single STI and/or pregnancy scare, which I’d have to say is pretty fucking awesome, considering I’m part of the class the Back to School issue was intended for.

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