Dan Savage

Dan Savage

In addition to being a nationally syndicated sex advice columnist, the author of several books, and the host of the Savage Lovecast, Savage is “a deviant of the highest order” (Daily Caller). He does not like to be hugged.

Recent Articles

SAVAGE LOVE: Out and About

At 45, a married woman discovers she's a lesbian—but wants to stay married to her man, AND keep her girlfriend, AND be accepted by her family. Can she have it all?

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Holiday kinks, sneaky sex, anal etiquette, and more in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!

SAVAGE LOVE: Turkey Run

When he says "eat me," he means it literally.

Savage Love Nov 19 10:08 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Twinning

"I might be falling in love with my husband’s identical twin brother." 👯‍♂️

Savage Love Nov 12 1:12 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Mourning in America

Advice for those who feel like democracy has abandoned them.

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Savage Love Nov 5 10:24 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Get your advice lickety-split with the latest edition of Savage Love quickies!

Savage Love Oct 29 1:00 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Cope Don't Seethe

He says he doesn't have sexual fantasies... OR DOES HE?

Savage Love Oct 22 10:48 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: The Rich Are Different

"I am incredibly rich, sexy, and have lots of lovers. Whatever will I do??"

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Savage Love Oct 15 11:01 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Ace Space Case

"As a sex-repulsed asexual gay man, I feel alienated when I enter gay spaces like bars, parties, clubs."

Savage Love Oct 8 10:28 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Struggle Sessions

It's amateur night at Savage Love, where YOU get to give snappy answers to desperate questions!

Savage Love Oct 1 10:25 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Get your Savage hot takes to your most pressing quick questions here! And don't miss this week's SAVAGE LOVECAST with guest Caleb Hearon!

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Savage Love Sep 24 9:54 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Vice Grips

Can you "fuck the Republican" out of someone? Dan—and a former sworn enemy—issue a ruling.

Savage Love Sep 17 10:40 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Role Perversal

A longtime couple finally admit their sexy fantasies... but can't carry them out! WHAT CAN BE DONE?

Savage Love Sep 10 11:00 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Lies That Bind

He repeatedly cheats, she told his family and friends. Are they both in the wrong?

Savage Love Sep 3 11:55 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

The "daddy/babygirl" dynamic, asexual curious, holding in your orgasm, swallowing curved appendages, and more!

Savage Love Aug 27 11:49 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Top Five

Dan picks five letters from his mailbag at random... and they are doozies!

Savage Love Aug 20 11:37 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Game On

His attempts at spontaneous sex are ANNOYING. Why is he doing it, and how can she get him to STOP?

Savage Love Aug 13 10:40 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: What Eats You

She's queer and doesn't like to be licked. Why can't people get that through their heads?