Dan Savage

Dan Savage

In addition to being a nationally syndicated sex advice columnist, the author of several books, and the host of the Savage Lovecast, Savage is “a deviant of the highest order” (Daily Caller). He does not like to be hugged.

Recent Articles

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Questionable circumcisions, X-rated Instagram, and meet your brand new AI boyfriend! πŸ€–πŸ˜

SAVAGE LOVE: Out With It

"I had an affair with our mutual boss a long time ago... does my hubby need to know?"

SAVAGE LOVE: Thirds

Dan tackles the eternal question: Open up a relationship, or slam that door shut forever?

Savage Love Feb 3 10:01 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Sexy gardeners, bend-over boyfriends, poly jealousy, and more in this quick 'n' nasty edition of Quickies!

Savage Love Jan 27 12:58 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: The Roomies

A nosy roommate, sexy nurses, and the need for "less exciteable" genitals.

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Savage Love Jan 20 2:35 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Parent Trap

Should I Open Pandora’s Box with My Elderly Parents?

Savage Love Jan 13 1:15 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: CissiesΒ 

How to decode the behavior of cis het men. 

Savage Love Jan 6 9:59 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies!

Trauma turn-ons, sweet chastity, a life without kink, and lots more quickie Qs!

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Savage Love Dec 23 11:08 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Christmas Wrapping

"I'll be home (at my friend's sex dungeon) for Christmas."

HUMP! Dec 19 1:00 PM

Annoucing the Winners of the HUMP! 2025 Fall Lineup!

Featuring your votes for the best sexy, hilarious, and cool flicks of the HUMP! film festival.

Savage Love Dec 16 10:00 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Good Working Order

This week: a case of the "ex," a gay awakening, and a very soggy mattress.

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Savage Love Dec 9 10:11 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Creepy Dancer

Hands off! Her new boyfriend's friend is a dancefloor groper.

Savage Love Dec 2 9:56 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Trump's "gay" ballroom, learning the ropes, urine in the neti pot, and more in this edition of "Quickies"!

Savage Love Nov 25 10:03 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Happy Spanksgiving

Unrequited crushes, obsessed with gym grunts, and a Thanksgiving to forget—forever.

Savage Love Nov 18 1:23 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Three Options

"Is an open relationship a feasible option?" "Hmmm... let me ask my husband of thirty years and my boyfriend of thirteen years."

Savage Love Nov 11 9:57 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Snakes and Bladders

Straight guy wonders: "What's it like to have a larger penis? And hold it while he pees?" πŸ€”

Savage Love Nov 4 12:00 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies!

Get your sexiest questions answered lickety-split in this edition of "Quickies"!

Savage Love Oct 28 9:50 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Cage Match

He can't find a cage to fit his cock, and she's sad her brother touched her tits. Another week in the life of Savage Love!