Dan Savage

Dan Savage

In addition to being a nationally syndicated sex advice columnist, the author of several books, and the host of the Savage Lovecast, Savage is “a deviant of the highest order” (Daily Caller). He does not like to be hugged.

Recent Articles

SAVAGE LOVE: Off the Table

"She finds sex too painful and no longer wants to have intercourse. But... what about me?"

SAVAGE LOVE: Runaway, Bride!

"I've been married for almost two years, and we still haven’t had sex." WHAT? 👀

SAVAGE LOVE: HUMP! Quickies

Quick (and dirty) questions from the HUMP! porn festival audience members!

Savage Love Feb 25 11:00 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Acid Tongued

"My partner was prescribed a boric acid suppository. Will I die if I eat her out?"

Savage Love Feb 18 9:54 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Team Fantasize

"Don't tease me with your hot fantasies if you don't actually want to do 'em!"

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Savage Love Feb 11 10:21 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Low and Slow

"How do I stop pushing Daddies away with my neediness?"

Savage Love Feb 4 10:43 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Solve your tricky sex problems quick with this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!

Savage Love Jan 28 10:47 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: The Counterfeit

"I've been faking orgasms... for months. How do I break this cycle?"

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Savage Love Jan 21 1:56 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Trump and Dump

Her partner's son is a virulent, Trump-loving homophobe. How is she supposed to put up with this?

Savage Love Jan 14 10:00 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Fear Factors

Her 17-year-old son is hooking up with older men, and she's terrified.

Savage Love Jan 7 10:00 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Get your sex advice quick with this edition of Savage Love quickies!

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Savage Love Dec 31 11:34 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: The Sixties

He enjoys oral over vaginal sex, and she isn't satisfied. What to do?

Savage Love Dec 24 12:00 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Damaged Goods

A sudden onset of premature ejaculation has her wondering, "Will I ever be able to enjoyably ride my husband again?"

Savage Love Dec 17 10:08 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Crop Top

"My boobs won't stop growing, so I'm undergoing top surgery—and my husband is distressed."

Savage Love Dec 10 10:11 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Out and About

At 45, a married woman discovers she's a lesbian—but wants to stay married to her man, AND keep her girlfriend, AND be accepted by her family. Can she have it all?

Savage Love Dec 3 10:08 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Holiday kinks, sneaky sex, anal etiquette, and more in this edition of Savage Love: Quickies!

Savage Love Nov 26 10:07 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Turkey Run

When he says "eat me," he means it literally.

Savage Love Nov 19 10:08 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Twinning

"I might be falling in love with my husband’s identical twin brother." 👯‍♂️