Dan Savage

Dan Savage

In addition to being a nationally syndicated sex advice columnist, the author of several books, and the host of the Savage Lovecast, Savage is “a deviant of the highest order” (Daily Caller). He does not like to be hugged.

Recent Articles

SAVAGE LOVE: Role Perversal

A longtime couple finally admit their sexy fantasies... but can't carry them out! WHAT CAN BE DONE?

SAVAGE LOVE: Lies That Bind

He repeatedly cheats, she told his family and friends. Are they both in the wrong?

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

The "daddy/babygirl" dynamic, asexual curious, holding in your orgasm, swallowing curved appendages, and more!

Savage Love Aug 27 11:49 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Top Five

Dan picks five letters from his mailbag at random... and they are doozies!

Savage Love Aug 20 11:37 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Game On

His attempts at spontaneous sex are ANNOYING. Why is he doing it, and how can she get him to STOP?

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Savage Love Aug 13 10:40 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: What Eats You

She's queer and doesn't like to be licked. Why can't people get that through their heads?

Savage Love Aug 6 10:54 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Big Ask

A question that might not be for Dan, and another that DEFINITELY is.

Savage Love Jul 30 11:36 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Got sex problems? Get 'em answered quick with this edition of Savage Love "Quickies"!

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Savage Love Jul 23 9:46 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Same Page

He doesn't want to have sex anymore. Can this relationship be saved... and if so, how?

Savage Love Jul 16 10:23 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Solo Survivor

"After time apart (and having sex with others), should we introduce new people into our relationship?"

Savage Love Jul 9 10:55 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: The Outsiders

A married man in an open relationship needs advice about how to ask for what (and who) he wants on dating apps. 

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Savage Love Jul 3 10:51 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Allowances

She refuses to indulge in his feeder/gainer kink—can he just turn his feelings off?

Savage Love Jun 25 12:03 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Wants v. Gots

She's got an international part-time lover... but wants more. Should she ask for it?

Savage Love Jun 18 9:55 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Bruise Control

A reader who hurts himself feels like he's being judged while people into BDSM get celebrated. What's the difference?

Savage Love Jun 11 11:25 AM

Savage Love: Feathered Friends (With Benefits)

Grandma has a very... unusual... relationship with her pet parakeet. (Gulp.)

Savage Love Jun 4 10:22 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies

Pegging purists, jilted unicorns, cheating BFs, and more!

Savage Love May 28 12:00 PM

SAVAGE LOVE: Slick Moves

"My sex pal won't stop mishandling our lube." Can Dan help this person navigate their slippery situation?

Savage Love May 21 10:26 AM

SAVAGE LOVE: Mommy Issues

"My 13-year-old son is involved in an online Dom/sub relationship. Ummmm... HELP!!"